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What Is A Divine Feminine Woman?
A "Divine Feminine Woman" refers to a woman who embodies the qualities associated with the "Divine Feminine" Energy, which typically include intuition, nurturing, creativity, compassion, receptiveness, and a deep connection to nature; essentially, a woman who embraces her softer, more empathetic side and uses it to connect with herself and others on a profound level, transcending gender stereotypes.
The rise of the divine feminine is a call to balance the dominant masculine qualities of centuries with the feminine aspects within all people, regardless of gender identity. It's a shift from the analytical, logical, and systematic way of thinking to the intuitive, creative, and fluid way of feeling.
Key points about the Divine Feminine:
-Not limited to women:
While often associated with women, the Divine Feminine energy is considered to exist within everyone, regardless of gender.
-Balance with the Divine Masculine:
The concept of the Divine Feminine is often discussed in relation to the "Divine Masculine," which represents qualities like action, logic, and leadership.
-Spiritual connection:
Many spiritual traditions incorporate the concept of the Divine Feminine, often represented by goddess figures.
Some traits associated with the Divine Feminine:
-Intuition: A strong sense of inner knowing and trusting one's gut feelings.
-Nurturing: Caring for others and fostering connection.
-Creativity: Expressing oneself through art, music, or other creative outlets.
-Compassion: Showing empathy and understanding towards others.
-Receptivity: Being open to new experiences and perspectives.
-Flowing with life's rhythms: Accepting change and adapting to circumstances.
Some say that the rise of the Divine Feminine can look like:
-A rise in self-respect and self-esteem.
-A rise in acceptance of emotional expression.
-A decline in rigid gender roles.
-A rise in diversity and inclusion.
-A rise in consciousness.
-A rise in love.
How Can You Activate the Driving Feminine Energy Within?
-Move your body
-Spend more time in nature, observing the beauty of 'Mother Nature', the truest 'Divine Feminine'.
-Get comfortable RECEIVING, and get into a receptive energy.
-Soften, flow… ...
-Do what makes you feel good.
-Dress in a way that makes you feel strong and confident.
Everyone Will Look for a Spiritual ‘Divine HEALED Partner’: People will be seeking new changes and new lives, especially spiritual ones. If couples are not in a Spiritual relationship, they are going to break up anyway.
We are moving into a 5D Spiritual Earth, so many relationships will be ending, and others will be starting, because if you are Spiritual, chances are many will be looking for a Spiritual ‘Divine Partner.’ Many will even change their names and move to the other side of the Planet. Some will become ‘Nomads’ and elect to live off the grid.
Put it Out in the Universe What You Are Really Looking For: One lady said she was out driving and her ancestor told her to stop at a restaurant. When she stopped, a guy who knew her and had been watching her from afar was excited to see her.
He was the guy of her dreams, and they ended up getting married. This is how coincidental it is going to be on the 5D New Earth. It will be like your new ‘Divine HEALED Partner’ dropped out of the sky. Ask your Guardian Angels, Spirit Guides, Higher Self, and Ancestors to help you match with your 'Divine Partner.'
Don’t Be So Quick To Walk Away from a Good Relationship: The grass isn’t always greener on the other side. When you receive all your Gesara funds, you will have the option to leave your current relationship or continue working on your current situation.
Therefore, don’t be so quick to walk out on someone who is not yet ‘Spiritual’. Many are just now waking up, so give them time to catch up. Try to work with them – unless you know deep in your heart they won’t get there, and you are ready for something new.
-Women Who 'Mean-Mug': Men want women who are jolly and happy, women who smile all the time. Mean-mugging means to stare with an irritated or angry facial expression. This slang term is a verb that refers to making a scowling facial expression and directing it at another person. It usually involves frowning and furrowing your eyebrows, which makes you look angry or threatening.
I know numerous young women who are single, but all they do is walk around with a contorted look on their faces. Many work at gyms where tons of men are located -- daily. However, they walk around with a mean look on their faces, which scares many men away.
When a man sees a woman with a contorted, mean-mugging look on her face, he won’t wife her. Mean-mugging women are hardly ever in good moods. If a man is at work, he wants to know that he has this kind, lovable partner at home waiting for him who is going to be in a good mood.
When a man sees a woman who mean-mugs, he will say to himself, "She is going to be too hard to love or please." If you don’t learn how to smile, then you will be alone forever, because again, ‘You Are Not Wife Material.’
Alarming Fact: Children smile over 100 times a day, but many adults only smile four (4) times a day. Once you complete your Shadow Work and continue raising your frequencies and vibrations, you will start to smile again. Read the blog post entitled “How To Raise Your Frequencies and Vibrations.”
-Women With Bad Breath: Bad breath is often associated with poor hygiene and can negatively impact intimacy and closeness in a relationship. On your first few dates, men might get close enough to you to smell your breath even though they aren’t trying to kiss you.
Generally, men ARE NOT attracted to women with bad breath, even if a woman is attractive. Therefore, having bad breath will usually be a dealbreaker for many men.
-Women With Bad Teeth: Having bad teeth will turn men off. Your teeth and smile are what a man probably notices first about you. Men like it when women have a good smile. Some feel it is a ‘must-have’ in a potential partner.
Kissing can be extremely important in moving relationships to the next level. If your teeth turn a man off, he probably won’t take the relationship any further. You will be able to get a NEW SET OF TEETH with FREE Military Med Beds, so read the article entitled “What You Need To Know About FREE Military Med Beds.”
-Women With Bad Skin/Scars: Many people look at people’s skin issues as a temporary problem, which most are. Others may not care at all about your skin issues, unless it is pretty bad. Just know that many men prioritize qualities such as personality, kindness, and overall attractiveness when choosing a partner.
If you have acne, eczema, and other skin issues, it means your liver is overwhelmed, so start living a natural lifestyle. FREE Military Med Beds will remove all scars from the body, including burns and tattoos. It will restore your skin to its normal state, as it was when you were born. Meanwhile, drink lots of water and practice natural, healthy habits.
-Women With Bad Hygiene: I haven’t worn deodorant since 2008, since I started living a natural lifestyle. I could not believe there are young men on social media calling women ‘stinking’. Surely the women also had to see the videos, but they probably continued to sleep with them.
The smell of the foods you eat, especially the chemicals on GMO foods, can come through your skin and cause you to have a foul body odor, especially down there. It’s important to eat an ‘alkaline’ diet.
These foods are believed to affect the body's pH, making it more alkaline (or basic) rather than acidic. The diet emphasizes plant-based foods, including fruits, vegetables, and legumes, while restricting or limiting foods considered acidic, such as meat, dairy, and processed foods.
Eating too much meat, especially the wrong types, will definitely give you body odor. Meat stays in the body for 3 days, turning into ‘parasites’. You want to consume foods that will have a quick transition through the body, so that you have regular bowel movements, such as fruits and vegetables.
You should have 2 to 3 or more EASY BOWEL MOVEMENTS every day. Many who consume GMO foods, which cause ‘constipation,’ go 7 to 10 days without a bowel movement, which not only causes body odor, but it can also cause diseases to form.
Drinking plenty of good quality water (alkaline), including cranberry juice and eating pineapples, will make you feel fresh down there, but having an 'alkaline body' and engaging in regular detoxes is the key to smelling fresh without any BODY ODOR.
Read the book entitled "The pH Miracle" and take the 12 Steps/12 Chapters in my book, "How To Take Control of Your Own Life: A Self-Help Guide to Becoming Healthier Over the Next 30 Days." Chapter 1 discusses detoxification. You might need regular detoxifications (or 'detoxes' for short) to maintain an alkaline body without any BODY ODOR.
-Women Who Wear Hairstyles Where They Can’t Sweat: When men get with women, most want to lead healthier lifestyles. No one wants to get with someone with something glued on their head 24/7. When men see women wearing perms or those lace wigs glued to their heads, they will immediately know they are not out there exercising, sweating, and taking care of their bodies.
This will make a man rethink a relationship with you. The human body is not meant to stay still, which means you need to get your heart rate up 3, 4, or more days a week for 30 to 45 minutes with some type of ‘cardio’ or ‘cardiovascular’ exercise (walking, running, biking, etc.) – any continuous exercise.
Because women have chosen “hairstyles over exercise,” many are now finding out that ‘hair perms’ have given them all types of cancers and other diseases. The ingredients in perms have just fried the brains of black women.
One black female detective said when black women end up on slabs in coroners’ offices, their heads look like someone has taken a bat to them. In other words, hair perms are eating away at the brains of black women.
-Women Who Wear Too Provocative or Tacky Clothing in Public, including Pajamas and Bonnets: Men want women who appear to be neat, clean, and generally well-groomed. Grooming and image consulting businesses help individuals and organizations enhance their overall appearance and project a desired image.
These businesses offer services ranging from personal grooming and wardrobe advice to corporate image consulting and executive presence coaching. They focus on various aspects, including clothing, grooming, posture, etiquette, and communication, to help clients present their best selves.
These types of businesses will be needed as we bring back the Divine Feminine energy, especially for younger women, who weren't taught by their mothers how to look presentable in public.
Men often watch women online and in communities. They desire wives or 'Divine Partners' with grace and poise. Women who wear gym clothes that leave nothing to the imagination are simply not wife material.
Women should never leave the house looking tacky, even when taking out the garbage. Women will take a short trip to the grocery store wearing pajamas or bonnets.
Black women wear bonnets for various reasons, primarily to protect and maintain their hairstyles. Bonnets, often made of satin or silk, help to reduce friction and prevent breakage, frizz, and dryness while sleeping or relaxing.
They also serve as a symbol of cultural heritage, resilience, and self-expression for many Black women, connecting them to their ancestors and affirming their natural beauty.
When men see women wearing pajamas or bonnets in public, it tells them these are 'tacky' women. This is a total turn-off to men who are seeking wife material. Personally, the bonnets are okay, but I still wear silk scarves and sleep on silk pillowcases to protect my hair. If I did wear a bonnet, I certainly would not wear it in public, especially on social media.
-Women Who Are Too Materialistic: Some men keep it moving when they look at women and imagine what it will take for their upkeep. They will say she is going to be too expensive for me. However, if a man is attracted to a woman, he should at least talk to her to see what is on her mind.
Everyone is about to have money (#GesaraFunds), so not getting into a relationship because of the upkeep will no longer be a concern. If you see someone you are attracted to, and they are single -- go for it, especially if they are a 'Divine HEALED Spiritual Partner.'
-Men Are Looking for Women Who Can Be Good Mothers: Men are looking for women who can be good mothers. Women who don’t know how to be good mothers can invite negativity and even crime into their lives. Men are protectors. Men want to know their family is protected.
When women allow children to twerk in public, dress too provocatively for their age, or wear jewelry not meant for children, it does nothing but invite crime into the family. It also exposes the family to ridicule, especially from within the family. When men see this, even when he is dating you and you have other children, it will make him rethink getting serious with you.
-Women Who Act 'Masculine': Stop calling yourself an 'Alpha Woman'. There is no such thing. Men constantly watch women -- online and in communities. For many, this is a full-time job. They enjoy it, especially if they are single. They look at your mannerisms and how you carry yourself. They look at how others interact with you.
Do you use your inside voice? Are you always smiling? Remember, men tend to prefer women who are always smiling. If you carry yourself in a feminine manner, you will be attractive to a potential mate.
Being feminine means always smiling, speaking softly, expressing yourself in a kind and gentle manner, and dressing appropriately in public. It means looking and acting like a young lady. These are the types of women men are looking to marry.
-Women With Voices That Sound like Men: Men will listen for women to speak in person, online, or on the phone, to see if they are using their inside voices, and also to see how professional they sound. They especially do not want women who use ‘profanity,’ and because of the culture today, they want to make sure a woman’s voice doesn’t sound like a male voice.
These women could be 100% Natural-born or Biological women, but because doctors have given them ‘unnecessary’ thyroid surgeries, they have lost their ‘natural’ ‘feminine’ voices. Natural-born and Biological Men won't be attracted to these women because they will say their voices are too heavy.
-Women Who Aren’t Their Type: No two people are alike, even if they dress alike, they will have different traits and mannerisms, even when they grew up in the same household. Women need to stop getting mad when men aren’t attracted to them, but they might be attracted to a friend that you are hanging out with.
One thing I learned by being around men is that they are visual creatures, but so are many women. Some men will only date black women. Others will date outside their race, and many will ONLY DATE outside their race.
Physical attraction is undeniably important for many men. They appreciate a woman who takes care of her appearance and maintains a healthy lifestyle. Many men tend to have a "type" when it comes to attraction. This may have been influenced by past experiences, preferences, and societal norms.
This "type" is more than just a list of physical traits; it's a set of choices and patterns that guide their attraction to potential partners. When a man reaches out to you for a date, you are probably his type.
If you aren’t his physical type, he won’t bother you, so stop being mad at men for not coming on to you, even though you know they are single. You are just probably NOT HIS TYPE. If you are his type and if he is single, believe me, he will pursue you.
Women have over 10 hot spots on their bodies.
DearCathy.com is written by CathyHarrisInternational.com. Cathy Harris is an Advice Columnist at DearCathy.com. Myths, misinformation, old wives’ tales, and urban legends are plaguing most communities today -- so people don't know what to believe. Cathy Harris is here to set the record straight when it comes to loving the opposite sex. Contact DearCathy.com at AskCathy@DearCathy.com.
I am also a Researcher and Love and Dating Coach at www.DearCathy.com. I used to have a dating site on Facebook, but I removed it. However, I was able to learn a great deal about the opposite sex, especially when I conducted research for my first love book entitled, “Love After 50: Love Questions from DearCathy.com After Hours” at www.AngelsPress.com.
-The Black Dr. Ruth: When I started writing non-fiction books at www.AngelsPress.com (32 total now), I never thought I would write a book on love – but I did. When I worked with mostly men in the Military and Federal Government, many of my co-workers used to call me the “Black Dr. Ruth,” so I just went with it. They constantly asked me questions about how women thought about different things. During my time on the job, I believe I helped many men navigate situations involving women.
-Let’s Talk About SKI’s Ladies: A SKI is something that I made up as a Dating and Love Coach, and yes, they are “Masculine Men,” with very good hearts. SKIs have a lot of character, which is a compliment. They possess strong qualities, such as integrity, uniqueness, and a distinct personality. They stand out in a positive way and have depth, which many people appreciate.
SKIs believe men are supposed to set the tone for their entire marriage. When women have a SKI as head of household, they are happy in their marriages, and satisfied women and men don’t tend to look outside of the marriage for fulfillment.
They have built something special, and they want to help others do the same. Therefore, they put their family first and help build thriving communities. You can mold a man into a SKI. However, many times men need to show up with the following qualities:
-(SKIs) - The “S” stands for “Sweet”: This is what women mean when they say they are married to ‘teddy bears’. Being sweet, lovable, and affectionate means a man has a warm and tender nature, where he's comfortable expressing fondness. He knows how to control his emotions. He rarely gets angry about anything.
Some individuals may have developed healthy anger management techniques or have a naturally calm temperament. SKIs are attentive family men. Nothing can get past them. They don’t have to get in the zone; they live in it. They are constantly watching their spouses and children to make sure they have everything they need, especially lots of fun, adventures, and excitement.
-(SKIs) - The “K” stands for “Kind”: Is he kind to you, your children, and others? Not only do you want a man who treats you with kindness, but you also want a man who is kind to your children and others. If he is kind, then he is likely to be compassionate.
A compassionate man is characterized by empathy, kindness, and a willingness to understand and support others. He prioritizes connection over being right and actively seeks to alleviate the suffering of those around him. This includes not only feeling the pain of others but also taking action to help.
Over 60% of people are narcissists. A narcissist is someone who has an exaggerated sense of self-importance, a deep need for excessive attention, and admiration. They lack empathy and can care less about people or their social conditions.
They have no sympathy for people who end up homeless or in other conditions due to no fault of their own. Being a narcissist is not a male trait. Both women and men can be narcissists. Narcissists don’t change. Many are bullies and very manipulative. Many people were married to narcissists, and that is why their marriages did not work out. If you are with a narcissist, get out now!!! Your higher self will help you find your ‘Divine Partner’ as we move into the 5D New Earth.
-(SKIs) - The “I” is for Intelligent: Most intelligent men are smart enough to know they need to put their families first. These men are ‘protectors’. This perspective often portrays men as natural providers and guardians, particularly of women and families. Intelligent men are characterized by their strong cognitive abilities, including understanding, learning, and problem-solving.
They are often described as thoughtful, insightful, and capable of grasping complex concepts. Furthermore, intelligent men tend to possess traits such as curiosity, critical thinking, and a good sense of humor. SKIs don’t spoil their children with materialism.
They raise their daughters as princesses, and they turn their sons into good, intelligent, wise men. They are great conversationalists, and they know how to engage women intellectually. Women need a man with a good sense of humor in relationships, and this is why you need a SKI.
-Let’s Talk About Women’s 10 Hot Spots: Many men are only aware of 4 of women’s hotspots – down there, their breasts, lips, and necks. However, women have over 10 hotspots on their bodies, which, if touched or caressed often, would absolutely drive women crazy.
Most SKIs will find every spot, and they will find them often. This is just what SKIs do. They hire babysitters and plan weekly, adventurous outings or trips just for the two of you. They are faithful family men. These men are keepers. You can look forward to having an adventurous and exciting life with a man who is a SKI.
Going to the gym is a great way to meet the opposite sex for potential marriage opportunities. You got it, but you don’t have to flaunt it, ladies. It could damage your reputation and keep you from finding your ‘Divine Partner.’
Men are looking for feminine ‘high value women.’ This is not the way to get a man, and if you are involved in a relationship dressed like this, it is a sign of disrespect to your man. And I know no married man would allow you to come out like this.
If you dress like this, ladies, you are not leaving anything to the imagination. And most men don’t want their lady to be eye candy for other men, especially their friends in the gym. Men like to think they are the only ones looking at your body, so naturally, when women dress in a sexual manner or too provocatively at gyms, men will say to themselves, Huh, she looks good, but I would not #WifeHer. I will have sex with her, but I would not #WifeHer.
He will say that because if he sees you dressing like this, he will think if he has children with you -- then you would allow your daughter to dress provocatively also. His job as a father is going to be hard enough, so men are looking for women with a strong family value system. Go and put on some clothes and show up like this only in the bedroom.
Being soft can be described in three (3) ways:
-SOFT Beta Men: Men are called soft when they are beta men. You see these men online being abused by women. When in relationships, these are men who allow women to step into Masculine roles because women feel like they are not stepping up to the plate and being men.
Even if women have to step up to the plate in a relationship, it doesn't mean they need to sacrifice who they really are. You have to work harder to look and feel feminine during this time. In the end, it will be worth it.
-SOFT Skin: If you take care of your body by actively taking steps to be healthy, then chances are your skin will look and feel soft in return. The liver is in charge of emotions, energy, and obesity. If you are kind to your liver, your body should, in return, be kind to you.
Just remember that the liver is in charge of your skin, so if you have skin issues, then chances are you have an overloaded liver. To remedy this, you will need to lead a simpler life and GO NATURAL from HEAD TO TOE.
This means eating a natural diet, which includes eating natural meals, drinking good quality water (alkaline), taking daily supplements, engaging in regular fasting and detoxes, getting enough exercise, getting sunshine, and breathing in fresh air daily.
Many black families use this cheap lotion on their bodies. They believe that the lotion will also help hide and remove scars because their skin tone is darker. This is far from the truth. Stop using lotions, especially cocoa butter lotions, or wearing perfumes and colognes. Not only do these items overwhelm your liver, but they also dry out your skin. Even using vaseline on your body can be considered harsh. If you know what these items are made of, then you will see why neither of these two items should be applied to any part of the skin.
Just like brushing your teeth daily, there are other daily habits that women (and men) must adopt to look and feel healthy. You can start or end each day by airbrushing your skin. To ensure you are taking care of your skin, you can use olive or coconut oil with a loofah in or out of the shower.
Instead of using a bathcloth, swap it out with a loofah brush when bathing or showering. Change these out every few weeks because they can attract bacteria. Unless they are attached to wood, they can be washed in home washing machines with natural or aluminum-free baking soda or borax.
One piece of advice I give to my audiences is to never run out of lemons. Not only do lemons activate the liver - the organ in charge of Emotions, Energy, and Obesity- but they also make great cleaning and air-freshening products.
Also, HOAs will be going away, so think about growing lemon trees in your front or backyard. The goal is to never run out of lemons. Cutting up daily lemons and leaving them out on countertops will be more beneficial than having toxic products in the home, such as perfumed soaps and air fresheners. These products not only contribute to poor health, but chances are, they will keep you from reaching 100% of your health.
Did you know that most homes' interiors are more toxic than their exteriors? This should not be because women buy and bring food and other products into their homes. Try to cut down on toxic products by using white distilled vinegar and natural or aluminum-free baking soda on countertops. You can even add a touch of lemon juice. Try washing dishes and clothes with natural products like 'borax'.
-SOFT Feminine Looks: Many men consider a woman who carries herself in a feminine manner soft. These are the women that most men find attractive. They look at how you carry yourself, including makeup, hair, and clothing, whether you speak in a soft manner, and how you treat others around you. Again, men are constantly watching women, and again, they are looking for feminine (or soft) women -- especially those who are constantly smiling.