Narcissists Run the 3D Matrix

–Classic/Overt Narcissist: A Classic Narcissist refers to the overt type. Overt narcissists are individuals who display an arrogant and extroverted personality, characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance and a need for constant admiration.

They are often overtly attention-seeking, entitled, and lack empathy, leading to a dominant and exploitative behavior in relationships and social settings. Unlike Covert Narcissists, their narcissistic traits are obvious and not hidden behind a facade of shyness or insecurity.

-Covert Narcissist: A Covert Narcissist is a type of Narcissist who is subtle and less noticeable than an overt one. They are often perceived as shy or vulnerable but use passive-aggressive and manipulative tactics like playing the victim, gaslighting, and faking empathy to get attention and control. Despite appearing self-deprecating, they have a core sense of entitlement and lack empathy for others.

-Malignant Narcissist (Also called ‘Psychopaths’ and ‘Sociopaths’): A Malignant Narcissist is an individual who combines narcissistic traits with antisocial behavior, paranoia, and sadism. This can be an extreme form of narcissism where the person lacks empathy, is manipulative, and takes pleasure in harming others, unlike typical narcissists who primarily crave admiration. Key characteristics include cruelty, manipulation, paranoia, a sense of persecution, and a disregard for morality or the suffering of others. 

-Communal Narcissist: A Communal Narcissist is an individual who seeks validation and admiration by focusing on being perceived as the most helpful and morally superior person within a social group or community. Unlike a traditional narcissist who boasts about personal achievements or appearance, the communal narcissist boasts about their generosity and service. These individuals could also be the ‘Politicians,’ who are often caught having #RibbonCuttingCeremonies. 

-A Narcissist Will Isolate You from Your Family and Friends: Don’t be around men or women who don’t like their mothers, and you like your mother, because eventually that poison is going to spill over into you, and you will no longer like your mother.

You have to keep your power and not let this person control you. Don’t be a victim, have paranoia, and allow them to continue to put you down.

Stop making excuses for them. They make you go crazy. You respond and react in ways that you would never have responded or reacted before. Your family will think you are crazy.

-Co-Parenting With a Narcissist: This is why to get rid of Narcissists, you have to go #NoContact – even if you have children with them. That is if you want to save your sanity. When you get into a relationship with a Narcissist, the only thing you can do is look for the exit.

Co-parenting with a Narcissist is going to drive you just as crazy as being with a Narcissist. Remember, Narcissists hate their children, so why are you trying to give them time with them? All they are going to do is spend time turning them against you.

One lady said that when her ex-spouse picked up the kids, he would not even make sure their seatbelts were fastened. He wanted to hurt the children to hurt her. These are demons. Why put your kids in harm’s way? Leave and go #NoContact.

-The Overt Narcissist: Not all Narcissists are the same. ‘Classic’ or ‘Overt’ Narcissists come across as bold and loud. They are out there beating the drum so everyone will hear them.

The Overt Narcissist needs and seeks attention, wanting people to admire them. The classic definition of a Narcissist is that they have to be the center of attention. They want everyone to think they are special.

They think they are better than you, and they want to remain above you. People with this disorder may lack the ability to understand or care about others’ feelings. Narcissists can’t be sorry for a dog that is killed. They cannot reflect on feelings.

Relationships have to be give and take, but Narcissists act as if they are a ‘God-like’ or a power figure. They don’t have empathy. They have an identity disturbance. They have difficulty forming bonds or attachments because nothing ever fulfills them. 

-Covert Narcissists Won’t Get Jobs: Covert Narcissists have all the traits and characteristics of all the Narcissists, but express them in subtle ways.

The Covert Narcissists are just as entitled as the Classic/Overt Narcissists. Those are the worst.  They masquerade as sad, depressed, and wounded.

Many with Bipolar Disorder could be in a narcissistic abuse relationship. Since Narcissists can change up on you or run hot and cold, many believe they have similar traits to people with ‘Bipolar Disorder,’ which is a mental condition marked by ALTERNATING periods of elevation and depression.

That is quite possible, especially for the Covert Narcissists, who many times can be depressed. They come across as being victimized, sad, and depressed. Many call them ‘Backdoor Narcissists.’ 

Many are also ‘Neat Freaks’, and some even have “OCD”. Being a “Neat Freak” isn’t always a mental health condition; it’s a spectrum, but excessive, intrusive cleaning can be a symptom of a real disorder like Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) or Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD), especially when it causes significant distress, interferes with life, or involves uncontrollable rituals (compulsions) driven by obsessive fears.

Many Covert Narcissists won’t get a job. They will say I am saving myself for management. Their arrogance is so strong. They think having a job is beneath them. They will say, “Instead of getting a job working for McDonald’s, I should be managing 10 McDonald’s franchises.”

They are saying they have it all, but they have never been recognized. They take on this victim mode, but they will tell you they are special, but no one gets them. They will say I went to Princeton, but no one cares.

They are shy, which means they don’t get into the arena. They never get engaged. Ask him to get out there and show us. They will rage at you because they are ‘paranoid’.

They will sit at home and complain because they wanted everything on a silver platter. They don’t have the guts to step up and do anything. It isn’t the critic who counts. The credit belongs to the man who gets off his butt and gets in the arena and gets his hands dirty.

That is the last place you will find a Covert Narcissist. They sit back and criticize others. They are paranoid malcontents. 

“Paranoid malcontents” describe individuals with Paranoid Personality Disorder (PPD), characterized by deep-seated distrust, suspicion, hypersensitivity, grudges, and interpreting benign actions as malicious, often leading to social isolation, defensiveness, and relationship difficulties, though they don’t typically have full-blown psychotic breaks like schizophrenia.

They’re often seen as disgruntled, believing others intend to harm or exploit them without sufficient reason, making them guarded and prone to counterattacks. 

-A Covert Narcissist Work Life: A Covert Narcissist will criticize you indirectly or behind your back. They will say things like, “Oh, must be nice to grow up with a family who sets everything up for you.

Must be nice that your father set you up in your job. He is raging inside. He thinks the world owes him a living. He/She might think the world is out to get them. Lucky you, it must be nice.

It is called ‘leveraging’. They always see themselves in competition with you, so they have to shoot you down.

They are going to sit back and say I just work here. They think they are the smartest person in the room, waiting for the universe to deliver their just rewards.

They are not happy for anyone in the room. They are incredibly judgmental. They are the critic. They are going to criticize anyone doing anything. They will criticize people for having an opinion.

They hold grudges. They envy people who do well. They are entitled, and they think they are owed more. This person is bitter, hostile, and paranoid. 

They have a preoccupation with fantasy. They are very arrogant. They don’t read the room. The Narcissist is not interested in anyone.

They are very envious of anyone else. They are going to put you in your place. Their biggest weapon is ‘gaslighting,’ where they turn everything around.

They might tell you something about themselves, just to get info out of you. They will write that down and might even go to your spouse and tell them what you said.

They will use it to alienate your spouse from you. They will hold a grudge for 20 years, then they will get you. They are vindictive, so it’s horrible to have these people in your life. 

They are very deceitful because they think the world is going to get them, so they think they have to get you before you get them. That is what you are up against when you deal with a Malignant Narcissist.

They are motivated by power. When you see them in a leadership position, they will have a very colorful way of doing things. They don’t put the safety of others ahead of themselves.

Psychopaths are individuals characterized by a lack of empathy and remorse, manipulative and impulsive behavior, and shallow emotions. The term “psychopath” is not a formal clinical diagnosis but is used in psychology to describe a set of traits that overlap significantly with antisocial personality disorder (ASPD). Psychopaths often maintain a charming facade to conceal their antisocial and exploitative tendencies. 

Sociopathy is characterized by a lack of empathy, remorse, and guilt, coupled with manipulative, deceitful, and impulsive behavior. Other traits include poor social responsibility, a disregard for the rights and feelings of others, aggression, and a tendency toward substance abuse or criminal activity. They may appear charming but struggle with genuine emotional bonds, and their actions are often erratic and driven by short-term gratification.

Sociopaths vs. Psychopaths: Sociopaths and psychopaths are distinct from each other primarily in their origins and behaviors: Sociopathy is often attributed to environmental factors like trauma, leading to more erratic and impulsive behavior, while Psychopathy is believed to stem from genetics and brain abnormalities, resulting in calculated, emotionally detached, and manipulative actions. 

Psychopaths are typically more successful at appearing normal due to their ability to plan and fake charm, while sociopaths struggle more with impulsivity and emotional regulation.  

Because a psychopath is very charming and does not care who he or she hurts, it’s quite difficult to identify someone as having this condition.

A sociopath, however, is less organized and tends to be more outwardly antisocial than charming, so it’s easier to see that there is something not-quite-usual about them.

-Malignant Narcissists are Domestic and Child Abusers: Many are domestic abusers, so the men or women who deal with them have probably filed claims for ‘Domestic Violence’. They might then go through anger management, but many can also be child abusers. 

You would think they would be too ashamed to show their faces in courts, but they are the most arrogant, belligerent, and unapologetic people in life. They brag about what they did.

They will blame the victim and say they were provoked, and if the judge understood, he would not bring them to trial. They said it was not their fault. They said it was pushed on them. Again, they have NO EMPATHY.

One lady got 139 stitches from a Malignant Narcissist, and he said she should have gotten 242. He broke her four ribs and said he should have done more.

They will tell a judge that a lot of it is blown out of proportion. You are not going to change these people. This is way above your pay grade. They have to want to change.

People with personality disorders don’t know that it isn’t working for them. They see no reason to change.

They tend to rise to pretty high levels, and they get paid off by being like this. They think it is working for them. Again, their attitude is to get them before they get me.

An antisocial personality or a ‘Psychopath’ doesn’t feel anxiety. They don’t feel fear, especially the fear of getting caught. Those in prison have a higher body temperature than the General population.

One of the signs that tells people they are afraid is that they get flushed, but prisoners don’t get flushed. They are already flushed. They don’t feel remorse. They don’t feel sorry for what they did.

A Narcissist does feel insecurity and anxiety. They simply can’t be confronted. There could be turmoil and trauma that made them feel insecure.

-Communal Narcissists Are Always Looking for Cameras: Anyone getting attention is a threat to the Communal Narcissist. They need people to tell them how special they are, or they can go on the attack. 

Communal Narcissists draw attention to themselves. They want their pictures in the newspaper.  They want to be shown planting trees or receiving some other accolade. 

These individuals could be ‘Politicians’. How many times have we seen “Ribbon Cutting Ceremonies” in newspapers or on TV? They want to have their picture taken during charity events.

They want acknowledgement for everything they do. They put their own needs ahead of the cause. If they had spent this camera time on the children rather than on themselves, they might have raised more money. 

It is all about them. They will come in and do your work because they think they are the ones holding everything together. They think they are the most important people there.

They will create all types of drama just to put it out. They might start a fire just to put it out. If you are playing golf, they will tell you how to swing. If you are in a support group, they will dominate the group. If the camera goes away, they won’t do anything.

They are going to gaslight you or jump to the moral high ground.  You are just wasting your time if you are interested in a chase. Don’t let them wear you out or run out of something that you are passionate about.

Don’t let them run you out or control you. If they try to bait you, don’t take the bait.  If you like shelter animals, don’t let them drive you away from something you care about or something that you are passionate about. 

They feel they have to be the center of attention in any project. Don’t try to change them. They are not going to change. Take that same energy and spend it on yourself.

-Narcissists Constantly Fish for Compliments: The #HumbleBrag is to draw attention to themselves. The narcissistic woman will say, “I look awful without makeup.” They want you to pay attention to them.

The narcissistic man will go out to run track, and they will say, “This is going to kill me, but they have been secretly working out.”

Then they want you to brag on how well they did. They are fishing for compliments. They are very self-absorbed. They think the world owes them a living. 

-Narcissists Play the ‘But For’ Game: They play the ‘but for’ game. They will say, “You have a powerful father, or I would be doing better than you.” They are takers, not givers. They don’t care what you need. They will take what they need.

If you fall down and break your leg, they will step over you. They don’t give compliments. They would see that at their expense.

-Narcissists Go Through So Many Cars: Most go through so many cars because they destroy everything they touch. They try to keep up with the Joneses. Many try to keep up a false image. They are never satisfied. They get bored with everything too fast.

They have no identity, so they don’t know what they like. They think new things will help them cope with their demons that they are fighting every single day. 

–Narcissists Are Closet Drinkers: Many Narcissists are closet drinkers. A closet alcoholic is someone who hides their alcohol abuse from friends, family, and coworkers. Otherwise referred to as a high-functioning alcoholic, a closet drinker, or an alcoholic, will go to great lengths to hide their excessive drinking from loved ones, bosses, and coworkers.

-We Are Cultivating Narcissists: We are cultivating Narcissists. How many selfies does the average teenager take? They are taking hundreds of pictures and videos of themselves on social media platforms. It is so shallow. Some get 500 likes versus 17 likes, so are we cultivating a narcissistic society?

Many Narcissists will show up again in your life just when you have healed from the relationship. You have to do your Shadow Work, so read the blog post “How To Raise Your Frequencies and Vibrations.”

You can’t give them closure. When you leave, you have to BLOCK, BLOCK, BLOCK everywhere (phone/text, email, social media, etc.). 

They hate you when you leave. They don’t really like you, but they want someone to manipulate and control, so they will lie and wait and eventually reach back out to you unless you have BLOCKED them everywhere.

If a Narcissist reaches out to you after you have gone #NoContact, move slowly. When a Narcissist calls you after #NoContact, it’s not love, it’s a test. They are checking to see if they still have access to you. 

Don’t panic, don’t explain, and don’t defend. They call you when their new supply is gone. They don’t miss you. They want control. If you answer with emotion, you restart the #TraumaBond.

No Contact is not punishment. It is protection. It’s silence out of self-respect. Every time you stay #NoContact, you prove that peace is louder than chaos. Just be a better friend to yourself. Set boundaries, advocate for yourself, and create a healthy distance. 

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